Consider marriage: two unique individuals coming together, not to dominate one another, but to create something new and dynamic. In a healthy marriage, each person listens, empathizes, and loves selflessly, seeking the best for the union rather than just for themselves. This union is a continual process, revealing deeper truths about who we are as a human family. Our differences, far from causing division or oppression, help us discover a deeper way of being human together.
This concept extends beyond personal relationships to the very fabric of our societal structures. Democracy itself was born from the recognition of each individual's preciousness and the perils of oppression. We can confront the divisions in our world with a different kind of power—a power rooted in love, healing, and communion.
Today, Father Wall empowers us to honor the mystery of every person we meet and to build a more loving and unified human family. For those seeking more specific tools to build strong connections, the book 'Crucial Conversations - Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High' by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler offers valuable guidance on how to talk about almost anything, even when emotions are high. To find a copy at the Chicago Public Library, click HERE.